CAN I JUST SAY THAT I think it's really gross when people refer to their unborn fetuses by their intended names?

No. It's just "the baby" until it emerges. Cos, quite honestly, if I ever do get pregnant, I'll probably miscarry, and I'd hate to waste a perfectly good baby name. If you're already calling it by a name, YOU CAN'T VERY WELL USE THAT NAME ON YOUR NEXT ONE. Then it's back to square one, and I don't have room to go backwards in my life.

Well, anyhow, I'm gonna go do my Christmas shopping.